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Jharkhand Elections:HUNG HOUSE , INSTABILITY AGAIN, by Insaf 4 December 2009 |
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Round The States
New Delhi, 24 December 2009
Jharkhand Elections
HUNG HOUSE ,
INSTABILITY AGAIN
By Insaf
History repeats itself in Jharkhand. A political
merry-go-round has begun in the State, wallowing under corruption and
instability, yet again. The election results in the State have tragically
thrown up a hung Assembly. In the three-cornered contest between the Congress,
the BJP and the Jharkhand Mukti Morcha (JMM) none of the parties have managed
to reach the magical figure of 41 seats in the 81-member House. While the BJP
has taken a beating by winning only 18 seats, as against 30 last time, plus two
of ally JD(U), the Congress is upbeat
with its performance of becoming the single-largest block — 25 seats, 14 of its
own and another 11 of its alliance
partner Babulal Marandi’s JVM(P). However, former chief minister Shibhu Soren’s
Jharkhand Mukti Morcha (JMM) has done exceeding well by defying all predictions
and bouncing back with 18 seats in its kitty.
In all this poll arithmetic, both the Congress and the BJP are
vying for the JMM’s support to form the government. In effect, giving Soren the
pleasure of either being the kingmaker, or even the king, fulfilling his
aspirations of becoming CM for the fourth time. So far, however, the Congress
is in no mood to oblige and instead is considering Marandi for the top post. If
this happens the BJP would have no one but itself to blame. It turned away
Marandi, reducing itself to half its earlier alliance tally of 36 to 20.
Marandi had left the BJP in 2006 following differences and was instrumental in
boosting Congress’ performance. Among the other players who will have a say are
Lalu Yadav’s RJD with five seats and 13 others, including scam-tainted Madhu
Koda’s groupies and wife, Geeta and the All Jharkhand Students Union. Given the
scenario, a stable government appears to elude Jharkhand once again.
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Andhra Continues To
Simmer
Andhra Pradesh continues to simmer and boil over the Telangana
issue. More so, after the Centre’s “betrayal” on Wednesday last, wherein Union
Home Minister P Chidamabaram said: “The situation in Andhra has altered….Political
parties are divided on the issue. There is need to hold wide-ranging talks…” A
clear turn around from his December 9 statement of Delhi’s decision to initiate the process for
a separate Telangana. A furious TRS chief K Chandrashekhar Rao alongwith
Osmania Students Union forthwith called for a 48-hour bandh in the region,
already witnessing violence. Simultaneously, Rao resigned from the Lok Sabha
with 10 party legislators quitting the Assembly. The pressure on the Congress
is doubled as pro-Telangana MPs within its own divided house have threatened to
resign and join the statehood movement. How it proposes to come out of the mess
is anybody’s guess. The Congress stands
to lose either way.
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Gorkhaland Talks
Inconclusive
Peace in the picturesque Darjeeling Hills appears to be
short lived. The much-publicised tripartite talks between the Gorkha Janmukti
Morcha (GJM), the West Bengal Government and the Centre in Darjeeling made little headway on Monday
last. While both the Centre and the State governments are willing to offer the
belligerent GJM a Council “more autonomy and powers”, the Morcha refuses to
budge from its demand—for a separate state of Gorkhaland. But, this can happen
“only if there is a political consensus,” said Union Home Secretary GK Pillai
after the talks. Indication enough that an imminent solution is nowhere in
sight. Worse, the GJM will resume its indefinite hunger strike and ensure all
government offices are closed. It is now insisting that the next round of talks
(the fifth) should be at the “political level.” The West Bengal
government is non-committal so far.
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Bonanza For Four States
The hill states of Himachal Pradesh and Uttarakhand, along
with Bihar and Orissa are in for a bonanza in
the New Year. In the Centre’s plan to convert single-lane national highways
into double lanes, the four States will be major beneficiaries. The Union Road
and Transport Ministry is awaiting a $ 3-billion loan from the World Bank for
the project, under which it has already finalized 3,769 km to be taken up for
double-laning. While it has identified an additional 2,600-km under the
project, the Ministry has decided to double seven stretches covering 807 km of
single-lane highways in Bihar and about 638 km
of single lane NH in Himachal. Orissa and Uttarakhand will see 558 km and 448
km of stretches being upgraded respectively. With the WB officials expected to
arrive in Delhi this January, many a finger would be crossed for a bumpy-free
visit.
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UP Boils On
Sugarcane
The sugarcane price issue has once again spilled over to the
streets of Lucknow, Uttar Pradesh, after it was presumably resolved in
Parliament last month. The Congress supported by the Rashtriya Kisan Mazdoor
Sangathan (RKMS) has locked horns with the Mayawati Government and has demanded
a cane purchase price of Rs.280/- per quintal apart from a uniform pattern of
cane development incentive being given to the farmers by the sugar mills. On
Wednesday last, hundreds of farmers from abut 20 districts in the State
descended in the capital and staged a dharna at the Cane Commissioner’s office.
They have threatened to intensify the agitation if the issue is not resolved.
In fact, the show of strength turned out to be a platform for Mayawati bashing
as also attacking the Rashtriya Lok Dal, the Samajwadi Party and the BJP for
“politicizing” and diluting the cane price agitation.
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No Heavy School
bags In Haryana
Heavy school bags would be passé for Class I to Class III
students in Haryana if all goes well this coming New Year. In fact, the state government
proposes to be among the first few States to take the burden off their kids’
shoulders. The proposal comes under the Sarv
Shiksha Abhiyan programme in Government schools and Haryana will start a
pilot project in 40 such schools-- two from each district. Once the model is
successful it will be extended to all government primary schools in the State,
according to the State project Director of SSA, P K Das. The initiative, he
explains includes learning outside the four walls of classrooms, with more
fun-filled activities, which will help the child gain knowledge. Classroom
activities would be so designed that the students complete all their
study-related activities in the school itself and don’t take any work back
home. Parents are expected to be roped in to ensure the scheme’s success. ---INFA
(Copyright India News and Feature
Alliance)
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Andhra Turbulence:IT’S ALL HOT & SLEAZY, HONEY, by Poonam I Kaushish, 26 December 2009 |
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Political Diary
New Delhi, 26 December 2009
Andhra Turbulence
IT’S ALL HOT & SLEAZY, HONEY
By Poonam I Kaushish
Sting. The deadly highball which has been intoxicating the
public. A potent cocktail of sex and power which has all the ingredients of
sexy, salacious sleaze, honey. A blow by blow account of what intoxicates s our
Adams and Eves and rouses them to greater heights of ecstasy and glory in the
political Garden of Eden!
Welcome to a spanking new Kamasutra set in ‘turbulent’ Andhra. Delicious indiscretions of a honey trap gone
sour, laid bare by ABN Andhra Jyothi TV channel on Friday last. Of 86-year old Governor
ND Tiwari caught purportedly with his pyjamas
down --- literally and three naked
women ---- one at his legs and the others on his upper torso. A nok-jhok which could make a rose blush!
According to Uttarakhand woman Radhika she sent the women on
Tiwari’s request as he had promised her a mining licence and the girls jobs but
took sexual favours instead. When he did not uphold his promise, Radhika leaked
the video clips. As the gossip got more
raucous all indiscretions were discussed
threadbare, including lawyer Rohit Shekhar paternity suit in Delhi’s High Court claiming that he was born
out of Tiwari’s alleged relationship and his mother Ujwala Sharma. It didn’t
matter that the Court rejected the petition as it was time-barred.
Predictably, all hell broke loose, like it always does. The
Raj Bhavan got a High court order restraining the channel from airing the
footage. True to form, it also termed the clipping as a 'tissue of lies'. When
the Opposition and women groups demanded his removal for shaming the high
Constitutional office and the Centre sought a detailed report from the State
Government, Tiwari ‘ejected prematurely’ citing health reasons. All heaved sigh
of relief.
True to form, politicians of all hues, are coming forward
with long sermons on morals. The initial shivers of joy are beginning to give
way to concern. Our politicians certainly do not want that exposure. It could
hurt too much. Politicisation of crime one can handle. But exposures of ‘pegs
and legs’ would leave them nowhere.
The scandal has once again raised the pertinent question: Is
the private life of publicmen a concern of the public? Opinions differ. Many
claim that we must traditionally continue to be an open society. Consequently,
the question of privacy has never risen. That is also why India’s Constitution
does not have any provision for privacy, unlike in several European countries.
However, today the ball game is different, calling for new
rules and a new outlook. Not a few strongly feel that the private life of a
public person necessarily needs transparency. They stand for the strong
Gandhian view that a public man has no private parts to shield. That would be a
reflection on his character, integrity and values. The Mahatma was clear that a
man’s public life could never be clean if his private life was not. The two
were indivisible.
Private behaviour does influence public life. That is the
thumb rule enforced the world over. After all politicians, bureaucrat and
defence personnel who weave our national fabric together are expected to be a
notch higher than ordinary mortals. The reason why they are looked upto and respected.
Persons who will not easily succumb to human weakness and foibles. Caught they
come crashing down. Remember, Clinton who barely escaped impeachment for
converting the Presidential Oval office into the oral (sex) office, thanks to
Monica Lewinsky. In Britain, skeletons keep tumbling out of ministerial closets
to be given the ‘gay’ boot.
Most Congressmen however disagree and argue: “Gandhian
values were given a quiet burial even before India won its freedom. We may
still ritually pay lip service to him, but we have bastardized his values. How
can you talk morals in the land of Khajurao? Sex is a part of our traditional
heritage and we shall guard it with all the vigour at our command.” Not a few
therefore, prefer to follow Nehru who believed that leaders were entitled to
some space and relaxation. He often quoted Kemal Ataturk, who modernized
Turkey, in support. Wine, women and song were the Ataturk’s staple diet after
dusk. However, this never came in the way of his great work and achievements.
Some of our leaders have even raised an old demand for a law
on privacy. In fact, they have started pushing the idea privately. Worried as
they are abut Tiwari’s sexcapade. As
also the Kerala High Court’s decision to take cognizance of a former Minister’s
involvement in an ice-cream parlor sex scandal, as this could happen to them
also. Recall, the delicious indiscretions of a honey gone sour in Ahemadabad
when two Punjab Ministers and a Delhi MLA sought to brew a heady cocktail of
business and pleasure. They settled for three utterly butterly melt-in-the
mouth cheeses. All enjoyed merrily.
Or the poetic justice meted out by a UP Minister to his Madhumita.
Arguably, what’s the big deal? Indian politicians romp in
the hay is a story as old as the birds and the bees. Given our liberal
temperament and all-pervasive forgiving nature, let us not treat it as a case
of the grapes having gone sour. The moot point: Can our Constitutional
authorities and law makers become law breakers? And will we allow our law
enforcers to break the law themselves --- and with impunity? Can we then expect
fair justice? Who will judge and who will be judged?
The tragedy of the time is that it is not an issue of Tiwari
or XYZ ministers. What is frightening is that it has encompassed all levels of
governance --- bureaucrats, policemen and judiciary. Remember the infamous KPS
Gill case where the Director General of Punjab Police barely escaped jail for
‘patting’ a senior woman IAS office’s posterior. The ‘pat’ cost him Rs. One
lakh fine by the Court.
Who can deny that the political casting couch is worse or
better (depending on how one looks at it) than Bollywood’s casting couch. Every
party believes in share and share alike. All enjoy their ‘Common Wealth’ and
national heritage. Individually or collectively. Such is the state of affairs
that political residences are the subject of juicy, salacious gossip! Remember Kashmir’s political sexual escapades
in 2006. Of ‘madam Sabina’ forcing 43 girls into prostitution, a la Vladimir’s Lolita. A peek-a-boo nazariya of the real sex dastaan – of top Congress, NC and PDP netas caught in the act. So sensational
were the disclosures that it sent our polity scurrying for cover.
What to speak of 2005’s spicy stories dripping sex to the
panting-all, asking for more! Of a former Chief Minister indulging in utterly
butterly melt-in-your mouth indiscretions, four MPs enjoying their ‘pegs and
legs’ and three Union Cabinet Ministers relishing their latest “hot night”
dish. Add to this an officer’s complaint to her boss about an allegedly ‘un’fair
pass made by a senior Cabinet Minister. Leaving many at the top ‘red’ in the
face.
Haven’t we all enjoyed the ‘defence-less’ Tehelka, judicial
Vrindavan, political Jalgaon and Alwar video-tapes, deliciously educating about
affairs of the heart? Who doesn’t remember the “hot tandoori night,” which
spotlighted for the first time the antics of our lower polity via Naina Sahni
and Sushil Sharma?
Today our rulers take it as their birthright to free-load
and indulge. Their birthright to garb. They are the Carpetbaggers. The
‘have-not’s who bend the laws to quench their thirst with liquid green. Satiate
their appetite with freely plucked flowers. Wash it down with intoxicating
power to the sound of music. Once a delicious rendezvous is over, they will ply
whatever you want. Lay down any law, bend and rule, change any order, transfer
any person and fudge figures. All for a song and a little more.
Importantly, India today is at the moral crossroads.
Gandhi’s charkha has come a full circle.
Khadi was once symbolic of a true patriot and sacrifice in the struggle for
freedom. Today it largely camouflages unabashed opportunism and criminals.
Tragically, we are now in an era where our powers-that-be are pulverizing
society. It is high time to cry a halt to increasing degradation and start
afresh our own experiments with truth. Our leaders must stop using ‘pegs and
legs’ to fight their political battles. Or else be prepared to face public
sting. ---- INFA
(Copyright, India News and Feature Alliance)
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Hi-Tech Advances:KNOWLEDGE IS MONEY, by Dharmendra Nath (Retd. IAS),21 November 2009 |
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Sunday Reading
New Delhi, 21 November 2009
Hi-Tech Advances
KNOWLEDGE IS MONEY
By Dharmendra Nath
(Retd. IAS)
Till yesterday knowledge was power, today it is solid money.
A look at the Forbes list of billionaires, whether of Asia
or the world - be it Azim Premji or
Bill Gates - shows that we have nearly arrived in the age where knowledge is big
capital. Maharajas, money magnates, even petrodollars have taken a beating. Thanks
to it, J K Rowling (of Harry Potter fame) is a billion dollar writer. Earnings
are no longer physical-asset intensive.
Time was when capital was the most important and scarcest
factor of production. It commanded the highest price and dictated the terms.
Today it has been displaced by know-how and technology. Ever more efficient and
user-friendly technologies are replacing outdated ones and making vast fortunes
with first-to-be-there advantage. How promptly Windows Vista has been replaced by
Windows 7 within a matter of months. That partly smacks of a trick but,
nonetheless, we lesser mortals have to accept it. Let us recall how our
computer tapes, floppies, CDs and even pen drives were and are being replaced
over the years. Every step of the way has involved massive creation and
transfers of wealth.
Peter Drucker popularized the term knowledge worker in the
fifties. But it is coming into its own now. The money which knowledge commands
is mind boggling. It is paid for as R and D and technical fees, shares and
salaries etc. The property about whose safety we are increasingly worried is
not physical property but intellectual property. We are in a knowledge race.
In the context of the knowledge worker there is little scope
for exploitation of labour. The boot is rather on the other leg. The worry is
excessive attrition and how to retain a worthwhile work force. Besides knowledge
is an appreciating asset. It grows.
Gone are the days when employees could be taken for granted.
There is a shortage of skilled workers and they are poached upon. You employ
intelligence agencies to keep track and take timely corrective steps at your
end. Otherwise you lose your precious employees.
These days able-minded workers are harder to come by than
able-bodied ones. This being so, the quality of education and skill-development
assumes a key importance. To meet the demands of the knowledge age, we need an
education that is creative, not just mechanical. To use Alvin Toffler’s
language, we need ‘third wave’ education which comes not by learning by rote
but by fostering creativity and capability for self-growth. At its core is the development
of mental power.
Such education requires patience and a supportive
environment. It develops cognitive faculties of the mind and the capacity to
brainstorm or to withhold judgment as necessary. It needs to be conducted in a
multicultural or even international context so that it is prejudice-free and
inculcates right outlook and correct perspective.
The uneven and even unacceptable quality of a lot of our early
education and the wasted years which it implies constitute one of the worst
drains on our limited resources. There is need to get over that fast if we
would not like to be left behind.
We should seek to justify financial support for this inevitably
costly education in terms of economic return on intelligence rather than merely
as an item of expenditure on a social service. That will put things in a better
perspective. That input-output ratio will beat that of most other investments.
Just think how the world began to take notice of us? It was our
performance as knowledge workers, our nuclear tests and our IT competence. But
there is a long way to go yet and we have to multiply the number of worthwhile knowledge
workers many times. Our eleventh Plan envisages setting up of seven IIMs, eight
IITs and 30 Central
Universities. The target
for IITs has perhaps subsequently been revised to 20. That is a step in the
right direction and so is the target of gross enrolment of 15 per cent of class
twelve-pass outs into higher education (up from 10 per cent). We will have to
go a long way in that direction and raise it to 50 per cent or more, as it is
elsewhere in the progressive world.
Besides, institutions like All India Council of Technical
Education (AICTE) Medical Council of India (MCI) and National Council of
Teacher Education (NCTE) will have to be tolerated with much more teeth than
today, if we mean serious business. So far they have played a very docile role
– amply commented upon by our courts – toeing the government line rather than
guiding it. The regulator should have the strength and should be in a position
to assert itself against unfair pressures. Otherwise, we will have as much of a
surfeit of politically powered institutes of higher learning – some of it
already in evidence - as we have of them at the school education level already.
Turning out unemployable knowledge workers would be a tragedy.
As pointed out above, our school education deserves a lot
more attention. Looking to the size of our economy much more needs to be done
in the less glamorous but altogether more crucial field of school education.
That is the intervening make-or-break stage. We must particularly investigate
educational practices which work well with underprivileged children. Commenting
on the U S educational scene in 2007 Baumol and others say ‘Our educational
practices are much like health care was before the 19th century when doctors proceeded without
evidence and resorted to little more than bloodletting and cupping as the
universal remedies for most illnesses’. How true that sounds for us too!
Knowledge happily is a highly competitive and also a democratic
commodity. Despite intellectual property rights, which assure a minimal return
to the originator it does not allow for extended monopoly nor for excessive concentration
in a few hands. New ideas and new concepts replace old ones and they can spring
up anywhere. Knowledge is not heritable either. In fact, today it is at the
fingertips of anyone with an access to Google. It is all lying out there.
Knowledge capitalism of the sort that is coming into
evidence is capable of solving the riddle of capital-labour dichotomy too. It
can usher in an era of social harmony which has only been dreamt of till now. That
conflict belongs to the industrial society. It need not be there in the
information society.
Today’s capitalists are yesterday’s knowledge workers.
Having made money, they employ others in a widening circle of prosperity and in
the end many of them even bequeath large portions of their massive wealth to
charities for general welfare thus giving it back to the society. Is knowledge then
our threshold to a new Atlantis?---INFA
(Copyright,
India News and Feature Alliance)
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Prices, Poverty & Growth:STOP JUGGLERY OF FIGURES,by Shivaji Sarkar,21 December 2009 |
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Economic Highlights
New Delhi, 21 December 2009
Prices, Poverty &
Growth
STOP JUGGLERY OF
FIGURES
By Shivaji Sarkar
Reality and projections are foxing
the nation. Almost 20 per cent price rise and the growing numbers of the poor
are the reality. But when it comes to growth projections nobody is sure whether
there is reality in these or these are mere officialese. One can only hope it
is not the latter.
The October figures lead to a claim
of 10.3 per cent surge in the industrial production and GDP growth at 7.9 per
cent. Basic projections on the low growth parameters of October 2008 -- 4.3 per
cent and a comparison with that of October 2009 and the claims of high growth
possibilities certainly do not project the actual facts.
Else, the Government would not have
grappled with the poverty figures. Growth in this country is not linked to
betterment of living conditions of the people at large. Instead, it has been
observed that social and financial discrimination increases. Despite the supposed
fast-paced pre-2008 growth at around 7 to 8 per cent, it is surprising that the
number of poor have not come down. Of course there are different figures by
different committees and departments.
This apart, the Government is also unsure
whether the growing food prices are adding to the numbers or not? In November
alone inflation jumped three-fold from 1.34 per cent in October to 4.78 per
cent as WPI. Shockingly, food prices have risen to nearly 7 per cent – from
13.68 per cent on October 31 to 19.95 per cent on December 5. Logically it
would marginalize many more and push them below the poverty line. This is what
four different figures for poverty estimation seem to suggest. \
Higher poverty ratio has its effect
on the Government’s kitty as well. It may swell expenditure on poverty
alleviation and subsidy-related issues by over Rs 15,000 crore. The Planning
Commission in 2004-05 estimated that 28.3 per cent of the population was below
the poverty line. The Government still projects this as the figure of poor
persons. There is a dichotomy. It does not take into account the rise in
population. The figures have to vary accordingly.
Importantly, three official
committees have rejected these figures. The SD Tendulkar committee set up by
the Planning Commission has stated that even in 2004-05 there were 41.8 per
cent people below the poverty line. Officially there were 38 per cent poor in
1990. The NC Saxena committee set up the Ministry of Rural Development
estimated, on the same parameters of per capita calorie intake of the Planning
Commission that a poor person requires at least Rs 700 a month to survive.
The committee estimates 50 per cent
of the people are below the poverty line. It has also taken into account
low-weight children and anaemic women into account for the purpose of its
calculation. This means almost 55 crore persons are living in absolute poverty.
The Economic Survey of 2008-09 puts the figure at 60.5 per cent on the basis of
subsisting on a wage below Rs 20 a day as per National Statistical Organisation
Survey. The average works out to Rs 600 a month.
It is important to note that the Budget
process has started and is to be presented almost two months later. The Government
has to accept one or the other figure for deciding allocations. The closest to
the present Government estimates are the Tendulkar committee figures. But these
are also 13 per cent higher than the accepted official figures.
Clearly, the figures would be
definitely more if the high food prices are taken into account. Incomes have not
increased. There were more people who had been out of jobs and even those who
are in corporate jobs have seen erosion in wages as most of them have been
denied a raise since about two years.
According to the Tendulkar
committee, there would be 30 per cent more poor in Chhattisgarh, Jharkhand,
Bihar, UP, Rajasthan, MP and even West Bengal.
This means that on PDS alone the Government would have to spend Rs 10,000 to
12,000 crore. Expenditure would also increase on schemes such as NREGS, Indira
Awas Yojana, Swarna Jayanti Employment Scheme and similar other schemes.
If the rising prices are taken into
account, it would further swell the Government expenditure, which it is trying
to do with larger borrowings. Presently almost 7 per cent is the estimated
fiscal deficit. It is likely to swell further. This has a cascading effect on
expenses as also on actual growth prospects. Is the country getting into a
vortex?
Regrettably, the Government has not
been able to contain the prices. The Union Agriculture and Commerce Ministers,
Sharad Pawar and Kamal Nath respectively, are giving statements that are only
fuelling up food grain and sugar prices. Prime Minister Manmohan Singh has also
warned of further rise in prices. The only dissenting voice is that of Finance Minister
Pranab Mukherjee, who says he is concerned about this and is taking requisite steps.
His concern appears genuine. But, he has to show results in the Budget and this
seems difficult.
If the number of poor and price
rise, the Government may do projections but it would be away from reality. It
also raises the question about the intention of bringing down the prices. So
far, nobody has yet explained why butter has become scarce in the market. The only
answer has come from the multi-national retailer Walmart, which admitted
hoarding butter stocks after acquiring it from Anand in Gujarat.
One needs to look at the meeting of Walmart Chairman S Walton with Manmohan
Singh on November 4.
This above is a grim signal and
points to the linkages of price rise and entry of the MNCs and big corporate in
the retail market. Somehow nobody raids their warehouses, whereas godowns of the small wholesalers have
been searched under the provisions of the Essential Commodities Act.
Indeed, the nation and its
parliamentarians need to speak against the entry of big business into the
retail commodity and vegetable markets. There is no scrutiny of the officials
and others promoting entry of this sector. They lure the Government with
artificial growth projections. The Government instead has to look at actual
growth of the people. The US
and the West are suffering the ills of monopolization of transnational
retailers. There is time to secure India from their ill effects.
The Opposition and the Government
need to sit together to study the menace. Finances benefit only a few but
growth requires a vision and not statistical jugglery. The West and now even Dubai is suffering from
financial projections, created in the books. India has survived some of the
recent financial crisis but if the present trend continues it may not be able
to do so for long. ---INFA
(Copyright,
India News and Feature Alliance)
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Rising Divorce Cases:EROSION OF INDIAN FAMILY, by Dhurjati Mukherjee,9 November 2009 |
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Sunday Reading
New Delhi, 9 November 2009
Rising
Divorce Cases
EROSION
OF INDIAN FAMILY
By
Dhurjati Mukherjee
It is a well-known fact that over the years the
concept of the family has changed. Nowadays, the husband, wife and children
constitute the family, which was not the case two decades back. Worse, even
this family has become unsustainable and reports of marital discord have
increased over the years. The underlying forces of change have been giving a
new meaning to the causes of disharmony.
It is not that conflict, for example, due to
incompatible personalities did not exist earlier. But the fact is that it has
become more vibrant and open. Factors such as incompatibility of personalities
have existed in the past but what is new is that the tolerance threshold has
become fragile. Moreover, tension coupled with egos of individuals has
accentuated the personality clash, sometimes resulting in serious discords. The
clash of personalities has resulted in families breaking up and couples going
in for divorce or mutual separation.
The self dependence of women and their awareness
about rights have given rise to a new situation. Those who are employed or are
financially dependent find it difficult to tolerate the traditional dominance
of the male member and are in a position to take care of themselves without
having to fall back on their parents, as in the past. All these factors have led to an increase in the
divorce rate or separation primarily in the cities and urban centres.
According to a study by a Mumbai-based legal
activist, the family courts witnessed 2055 couples filing for divorce in 1995
in the city with the number going up to 3400 in 2004. Presently the number may
be not less than 5000. Similarly, in the sight of the matrimonial district
courts of Delhi,
an average of 25 divorce petitions were filed every day in 2004. In Kolkata,
the number has gone up from 1633 in 1966 to around 2400 in 2003 and may well be
over 4000 presently. It would be pertinent here to mention that because of the increasing
number of young couples resorting to divorce, six more family courts have come
up in Delhi since the late 90s to deal with a whopping 9000 cases of
matrimonial disputes.
Analyzing the various causes of such disputes,
it is generally believed that the three most important factors are: personality
related behaviours/tendencies, including deficiencies – sexual or otherwise; unfulfilled
material/monetary gains from, incompatibility, and lastly a superiority
complex. Cases of separate living or divorce are more pronounced where the
female member is assertive and employed.
There have been reports of the husband
suspecting his wife for alleged close or even sexual relations with a
colleague. While in some cases the allegations are true, there are many
instances where the allegations are baseless. Similarly, a working wife would
not tolerate her husband returning late at night and having any sort of
intimacy with any of his colleague. The clash of personalities in such types of
cases is very frequent and normally friends or relatives mediate to settle the
problems, keeping in view the future of children that the couple may be having.
Husbands normally want to dominate their wives
and would not tolerate their having intimacy with any male friend. While these
problems are more pronounced in the metros and amongst the upper middle class
or the upper echelons of society, the nature of the crisis differs among the
lower middle class and the economically weaker sections, where alcoholism and
gambling is a major factor.
In cases, the couple is issueless, the end
result is divorce. A woman cannot be divorced because she is infertile, as per
law, as there are alternative methods of procreation as well as adoption
available to the couple. However, in Muslim Personal Law, a wife’s barrenness
is a major ground for divorce if a husband wishes it to be so. Similarly, Islam
also allows a woman to divorce her husband if male infertility can be proven.
Reports of female private tutors having sexual
relations with the student’s father are well known. On the other hand, women or
girls, who manage the family as both the husband and wife are employed, have
been reported to have consensual sex with the male member. Many families do not
like to keep young girls because the wife suspects the loose character of her
husband.
With modernization of society, it is quite
apparent that tolerance and acceptability in the human individual would
gradually decrease. Moreover, attraction towards worldly objects would create
greater problems in man-woman relationship. With more and more women getting
employed – whether in corporate houses or in the unorganized sector – they
would tend to become more assertive in the family, more so if their income is
on the same levels as that of her husband. This would create more tension and
eventually lead to marital discord and may end up in divorce or separation.
One has to accept the fact that just because two
individuals have married, their thinking, mindsets and behavioural patterns cannot
be expected to be similar, more so if they are educated. It naturally takes
time to know and understand each other. The understanding, which will
eventually result in compatibility can develop only gradually and thus, both
have to accommodate the viewpoint and thinking of the other partner till then.
The essence of marriage is the ‘understanding’
of each other’s compulsions, which if lacking between couples, could spell
trouble in form of increase in family disputes and eventually lead to divorce.
In the coming year, there is a growing fear that the institution of the marriage
may, end up in ‘live-together’ relationships, where separation would become
much easier and not entail any legal hiccups. There was a time when sex and
procreation was the sole aim of marriage, but now this is possible even without
formal tie-ups.
Though counseling centres have mushroomed around
cities in particular and psychologists have been making efforts to bring about
rapprochement, the results are not very satisfactory. Arrogance and lack of
understanding are obviously the prime reasons. However, women’s organizations
say that more understanding has to be shown by the male member and his (as also
his family’s) domination in all matters has to end as with changing times
assertion of rights of the opposite sex is quite natural.
Indeed, it is difficult to project the future
existence of the nuclear family, but the sociological problems need to be thoroughly
examined. If in a family, the tradition of love and affection yields to
arrogance, suspicion and jealousy, it would have adverse affect in the child’s
growth and thinking process. Worse, it would jeopardize social values and
relationships.--INFA
(Copyright,
India News and Feature Alliance)
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